Do you have stage fear???
We say that no two people in the world share exactly the same thinking. True. But, we do share some common fears. Oh yes! Although we have had many fears in our childhood but “stage fear” is something that most of us can connect with easily.
I have read many article on how to overcome such fears but they are barely helpful. Then why do you think I am writing such an article? Well, I am not going to dictate you the tricks to overcome, yet I will help you in doing so indirectly. Don’t think too much, just read through and feel the magic.
You know, in our lifetime we are given the power to get over anything – we have seen people doing it. Get over any failure, any break up or even death of our loved ones. What connection then it has with fear of stage? Simple. I will tell you the qualities that people who are fearless of stage have, then you might connect, if they can do it, why don’t you?
1. They do feel nervousness once on the stage, but they have the courage to hide it.
Yes, don’t feel you aren’t that talented to stand and make the world listen to you. Everyone on the stage feels the same. Just let your inner pride know that you CAN do it. Simple, YOU CAN DO IT.
2. They have faced the failures more than we can imagine.
The main problem ladies and gentlemen we face is that since we have this fear of getting on top of the stage we avoid being there. I know you even you might be doing the same. Just let yourself be there. Imagine to learn to ride the bicycle, we fall but we never lose. 🙂
3. They know it is important.
What if that is the only option they have had? They then have to do it. Make it your only option. I know this is harsh, but even when we have to lose weight we have to harsh on ourselves.
4. They are well prepared.
When we are prepared, we have this security in our mind that nobody can challenge me on data. That itself is a strong motivator to prove your worth to the world.
5. They know it is needed to be famous or on the top.
Who doesn’t want to be famous or have some position of authority? Nobody. Then my dear friends you can’t do without it. So make your dreams more powerful than you fear.
6. They believe in themselves.
Do you? Do you consider yourself inferior to others? No, right? Then you can do it. No if’s and but’s, you simply can.
7. They hate failure.
Who doesn’t? Nobody in this world even likes to fail. Neither a student nor a Prime Minister. What is more important failure or let your fear go? You can either be a Lion and Roar or Donkey and Bray, never both.
8 They practice.
Do you? You can be a coward and hide behind your mom forever, but it takes a man to have the courage to come out and face the world.
9. They make people respect them.
So can you. Seriously. This is not the achievement in our complete lifetime, this is just the start for the list of things you would want to achieve.
10. They are just another you!
We all can do whatever we want in life. It is just the matter of not letting the fears control you. Rather, you control them. The people who are able to do it are the same as you, the difference is that they do not let the fear control them, and do what their heart says.